James Blackowl

With profound sadness, we announce the passing of James John Blackowl, better known as Jay, a loving and devoted husband, brother, and a friend to all whose lives he touched. Born in Lawton, OK, on May 2, 1973, Jay lived a life filled with melody, creativity, humor, and above all, love. He had a remarkable capacity to touch lives, a humble man of immense talent and generosity, who leaves behind a legacy of joy and laughter.

Jay was a celebrated musician, who lent his voice to many popular powwow groups such as Ottertrail, The Boyz, Medicine Bear Creek, and Lickity Split. His music took him to numerous cities across the United States and Canada, where he was well-known and loved. His voice was not just a medium of entertainment; it was a vessel of unity, bringing together families and communities. But Jay was not just a musician. He was also a craftsman, a chef, a mechanic, a wrestler, and a business owner. His life was a testament to his versatility and his ability to find joy in multiple pursuits. As Mark Twain once said, "Sing like no one's listening, love like you've never been hurt, dance like nobody's watching, and live like it's heaven on earth." Jay embodied this philosophy, his life a song that spread love and laughter.

Jay resided in Provo, Utah, with his loving wife, Donna Jim, whom he adored. He had previously lived in El Reno and Calumet, Oklahoma, and Shiprock, New Mexico, but he found his true home in the hearts of his family and friends. He treated many as his siblings, creating a family bound not by blood, but by love. His family, his singing, his love for his wife, these were the things that mattered most to him.

Jay is survived by his wife Donna , brothers Joe Conklin, Jr, Albert Conklin, and Michael Jefferson. Sisters Elaine Woodmore, Renee Ellis, Christine Antoine, and Felicia Jefferson.

Jay is preceded in death by mother Paula Louise Conklin.

Funeral services will be held at 1:00 p.m., Saturday, October 17, 2026, at the Lakeside 4th Ward Chapel, 102 North 2400 West, Provo, Utah. The family will receive friends from 11:30 a.m.-12:45 p.m. prior to services. Interment will follow in the Provo City Cemetery.

Condolences may be extended online at www.bergmortuary.com.

We encourage everyone who knew Jay to share their memories, stories, and photos on the memorial page. As we mourn his passing, let us also celebrate his life, his spirit, and the love he shared. As the melody of his life continues to play in our hearts, let us remember Jay, not with tears, but with laughter and love, just as he would have wanted.